If you want to sell better, have people respond to you better, want to lead better, have people listen to you more the key is engaging, interacting and communicating with confidence. Don’t you find confidence attractive? When someone knows who s/he is and is not afraid of being him/herself, there is something very attractive about this, […]
I was remembering recently a time when my daughter asked me a math-related question. I looked at the math problem on the page and I had NO idea where to start! The problem I had was that the my daughter needed to explain how she figured out what “9X8” was, for example. So, when she asked […]
A few days ago my wife and I had a “discussion” that was particularly illuminating and frustrating all at the same time. I realized that I was approaching a situation in our relationship in a way that I felt was respectful and thoughtful; however she revealed that my actions were not perceived as being respectful […]
I have two stories to share with you today that I think will help you in your selling. The first is inspired by my wife Kacy and an experience she had recently with a ring that she ordered from a company called Pure Soul Holistics. The ring was handcrafted by Nicole, the owner of the company, […]
If you have been in the multifamily housing industry for even a short time you’ve probably noticed that everything often looks and sounds alike between communities. I mean, how many communities have a pool? Fitness center? Covered parking? My guess is many. The apartments even look alike don’t they? Most companies use some type of […]
Now that the Christmas season is in full swing, my wife and I have been enjoying (again) the endless parade of Christmas movies . . . especially those on Hallmark Channel. Yes, I know, these movies are often formulaic, corny and utterly predictable, yet isn’t that why so many people tune in? If there is […]
Over the 11 years my wife and I have been married, I have gotten into many, many, “discussions” with her. Many of them were frustrating, confusing, infuriating and yet illuminating, all at the same time! I realized that I often approached those situations in our relationship in ways that I felt was respectful and thoughtful; however […]
I do not like buying cars. And just a few minutes after I walked into a dealership many years ago to test drive a car, I was reminded why I hated it so much. The salespeople. Oh, the salespeople. Especially the salespeople that do not seem to know that it isn’t 1972 anymore. The last […]
I have to be honest with you, I am feeling rather uninspired with many of the leasing “professionals” in our industry lately. Over the past few months I have been doing work for and with a vendor company, which requires my being in touch with communities (and associates) all around the country…and the results have […]
People do business with people they like. It seems obvious doesn’t it? Don’t you automatically gravitate towards people who you like? Don’t you just find yourself attracted to people that you perceive to be friendly and nice? Think about it…if you walked into a store and one associate smiled while the other had a snarky […]